Shahih Bukhari - 1206

Telah menceritakan kepada kami ['Abdan] telah menceritakan kepada kami ['Abdullah] telah mengabarkan kepada kami [Ibnu Juraij] berkata, telah mengabarkan kepada saya ['Abdullah bin 'ubaidullah bin Abu Mulaikah] berkata; "Telah wafat isteri 'Utsman radliallahu 'anha di Makkah lalu kami datang menyaksikan (pemakamannya). Hadir pula Ibnu 'Umar dan Ibnu 'Abbas radliallahu 'anhum dan saat itu aku duduk diantara keduanya". Atau katanya: "Aku duduk dekat salah satu dari keduanya". Kemudian datang orang lain lalu duduk di sampingku. Berkata, [Ibnu 'Umar radliallahu 'anhuma] kepada 'Amru bin 'Utsman: "Bukankan dilarang menangis dan sungguh Rasulullah Shallallahu'alaihiwasallam telah bersabda: "Sesungguhnya mayat pasti akan disiksa disebabkan tangisan keluarganya kepadanya?". Maka [Ibnu 'Abbas radliallahu 'anhuma] berkata,: "Sungguh 'Umar radliallahu 'anhu pernah mengatakan sebagiannya dari hal tadi". Kemudian dia menceritakan, katanya: "Aku pernah bersama 'Umar radliallahu 'anhu dari kota Makkah hingga kami sampai di Al Baida, di tempat itu dia melihat ada orang yang menunggang hewan tunggangannya di bawah pohon. Lalu dia berkata,: "Pergi dan lihatlah siapa mereka yang menunggang hewan tunggangannya itu!". Maka aku datang melihatnya yang ternyata dia adalah Shuhaib. Lalu aku kabarkan kepadanya. Dia ("Umar) berkata,: "Panggillah dia kemari!". Aku kembali menemui Shuhaib lalu aku berkata: "Pergi dan temuilah Amirul Mu'minin". Kemudian hari 'Umar mendapat musibah dibunuh orang, Shuhaib mendatanginya sambil menangis sambil terisak berkata,: Wahai saudaraku, wahai sahabat". Maka ['Umar] berkata,: "Wahai Shuhaib, mengapa kamu menangis untukku padahal Nabi Shallallahu'alaihiwasallam telah bersabda: "Sesungguhnya mayat pasti akan disiksa disebabkan sebagian tangisan keluarganya ". Berkata, [Ibnu 'Abbas radliallahu 'anhuma]: "Ketika 'Umar sudah wafat aku tanyakan masalah ini kepada ['Aisyah] radliallahu 'anha, maka dia berkata,: "Semoga Allah merahmati 'Umar. Demi Allah, tidaklah Rasulullah Shallallahu'alaihiwasallam pernah berkata seperti itu, bahwa Allah pasti akan menyiksa orang beriman disebabkan tangisan keluarganya kepadanya, akan tetapi yang benar Rasulullah Shallallahu'alaihiwasallam bersabda: "Sesungguhnya Allah pasti akan menambah siksaan buat orang kafir disebabkan tangisan keluarganya kepadanya". Dan cukuplah buat kalian firman Allah) dalam AL Qur'an (QS. An-Najm: 38) yang artinya: "Dan tidaklah seseorang memikul dosa orang lain". Ibnu 'Abbas radliallahu 'anhu berkata seketika itu pula: Dan Allahlah yang menjadikan seseorang tertawa dan menangis" (QS. Annajm 43). Berkata Ibnu Abu Mulaikah: "Demi Allah, setelah itu Ibnu 'Umar radliallahu 'anhu tidak mengucapkan sepatah kata pun". (HR. Bukhari: 1206)

Narrated ʿAbdullah binʿUbaidullah bin Abi Mulaika: One of the daughters of ʿUthman died at Mecca. We went to attend her funeral procession. Ibn ʿUmar and Ibn ʿAbbas were also present. I sat in between them (or said, I sat beside one of them. Then a man came and sat beside me.) ʿAbdullah bin ʿUmar said to ʿAmr bin ʿUthman, "Will you not prohibit crying as Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) has said, 'The dead person is tortured by the crying of his relatives.?" Ibn ʿAbbas said, "Umar used to say so." Then he added narrating, "I accompanied ʿUmar on a journey from Mecca till we reached Al-Baida. There he saw some travelers in the shade of a Samura (A kind of forest tree). He said (to me), "Go and see who those travelers are." So I went and saw that one of them was Suhaib. I told this to ʿUmar who then asked me to call him. So I went back to Suhaib and said to him, "Depart and follow the chief of the faithful believers." Later, when ʿUmar was stabbed, Suhaib came in weeping and saying, "O my brother, O my friend!" (on this ʿUmar said to him, "O Suhaib! Are you weeping for me while the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The dead person is punished by some of the weeping of his relatives?" Ibn ʿAbbas added, "When ʿUmar died I told all this to ʿAisha and she said, 'May Allah be merciful to ʿUmar. By Allah, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) did not say that a believer is punished by the weeping of his relatives. But he said, Allah increases the punishment of a non-believer because of the weeping of his relatives." ʿAisha further added, "The Qurʾan is sufficient for you (to clear up this point) as Allah has stated: 'No burdened soul will bear another's burden.' " (35.18). Ibn ʿAbbas then said, "Only Allah makes one laugh or cry." Ibn ʿUmar did not say anything after that. (Bukhari: 1206)