حَدَّثَنَا حِبَّانُ بْنُ مُوسَى أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ عَنْ الزُّهْرِيِّ عَنْ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيَّ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ فَبَتَّ طَلَاقَهَا فَتَزَوَّجَهَا بَعْدَهُ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الزَّبِيرِ فَجَاءَتْ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهَا كَانَتْ عِنْدَ رِفَاعَةَ فَطَلَّقَهَا آخِرَ ثَلَاثِ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ فَتَزَوَّجَهَا بَعْدَهُ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الزَّبِيرِ وَإِنَّهُ وَاللَّهِ مَا مَعَهُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِلَّا مِثْلُ هَذِهِ الْهُدْبَةِ لِهُدْبَةٍ أَخَذَتْهَا مِنْ جِلْبَابِهَا قَالَ وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ جَالِسٌ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَابْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْعَاصِ جَالِسٌ بِبَابِ الْحُجْرَةِ لِيُؤْذَنَ لَهُ فَطَفِقَ خَالِدٌ يُنَادِي أَبَا بَكْرٍ يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ أَلَا تَزْجُرُ هَذِهِ عَمَّا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَمَا يَزِيدُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى التَّبَسُّمِ ثُمَّ قَالَ لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ لَا حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ
Telah menceritakan kepada kami [Hibban bin Musa] telah mengabarkan kepada kami [Abdullah] telah mengabarkan kepada kami [Ma'mar] dari [Az Zuhri] dari ['Urwah] dari [Aisyah] radliallahu 'anha bahwa Rifa'ah Al Qaradli telah menceraikan isterinya setelah perceraiannya berlalu, Abdurrahman bin Zubair menikahi isterinya Rifa'ah. Lalu isterinya Rifa'ah datang kepada Nabi shallaallahu'alaihi wa sallam, Aisyah melanjutkan; "Wahai Rasulullah! Sesungguhnya wanita tersebut adalah isterinya Rifa'ah, Rifa'ah menceraikannya hingga jatuh talak tiga. Setelah itu, isterinya Rifa'ah menikah dengan Abdurrahman bin Az Zubair. Dan dia, demi Allah wahai Raulullah, tidaklah bersamanya melainkan seperti ujung kain yang ini." -sambil mengambil ujung jilbabnya- Urwah melanjutkan; "waktu itu Abu Bakar duduk di sisi Nabi shallaallahu 'alaihi wa sallam sementara Khalid bin Sa'id duduk di depan pintu kamar, supaya ia diizinkan masuk, segera ia memanggil Abu Bakar dan berkata; "Wahai Abu Bakar, apakah kamu tidak menghardik apa yang telah ia katakan dengan lancang di sisi Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam?" Rasulullah shallaallahu'alaihi wa sallam tersenyum seraya bersabda: "Sepertinya engkau hendak kembali kepada Rifa'ah. Tidak, hingga engkau merasakan madunya Abdurrahman bin Az Zubair dan dia merasakan madumu." (HR. Bukhari: 5620)
Narrated ʿAisha: Rifa'a Al-Qurazi divorced his wife irrevocably (i.e. that divorce was the final). Later on ʿAbdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair married her after him. She came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! I was Rifa'a's wife and he divorced me thrice, and then I was married to ʿAbdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, who, by Allah has nothing with him except something like this fringe, O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)," showing a fringe she had taken from her covering sheet. Abu Bakr was sitting with the Prophet (ﷺ) while Khalid Ibn Saʿid bin Al-ʿAs was sitting at the gate of the room waiting for admission. Khalid started calling Abu Bakr, "O Abu Bakr! Why don't you reprove this lady from what she is openly saying before Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)?" Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) did nothing except smiling, and then said (to the lady), "Perhaps you want to go back to Rifa'a? No, (it is not possible), unless and until you enjoy the sexual relation with him (ʿAbdur-Rahman), and he enjoys the sexual relation with you." (Bukhari: 5620)
