حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ وَحَرْمَلَةُ بْنُ يَحْيَى وَاللَّفْظُ لِحَرْمَلَةَ قَالَ أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ حَدَّثَنَا وَقَالَ حَرْمَلَةُ أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ أَخْبَرَنِي يُونُسُ عَنْ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ حَدَّثَنِي عُرْوَةُ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَخْبَرَتْهُ أَنَّ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيَّ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ فَبَتَّ طَلَاقَهَا فَتَزَوَّجَتْ بَعْدَهُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ فَجَاءَتْ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ رِفَاعَةَ فَطَلَّقَهَا آخِرَ ثَلَاثِ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ فَتَزَوَّجْتُ بَعْدَهُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ وَإِنَّهُ وَاللَّهِ مَا مَعَهُ إِلَّا مِثْلُ الْهُدْبَةِ وَأَخَذَتْ بِهُدْبَةٍ مِنْ جِلْبَابِهَا قَالَ فَتَبَسَّمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ضَاحِكًا فَقَالَ لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ لَا حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ الصِّدِّيقُ جَالِسٌ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَخَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْعَاصِ جَالِسٌ بِبَابِ الْحُجْرَةِ لَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَهُ قَالَ فَطَفِقَ خَالِدٌ يُنَادِي أَبَا بَكْرٍ أَلَا تَزْجُرُ هَذِهِ عَمَّا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ عَنْ الزُّهْرِيِّ عَنْ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ أَنَّ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيَّ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ فَتَزَوَّجَهَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الزَّبِيرِ فَجَاءَتْ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ رِفَاعَةَ طَلَّقَهَا آخِرَ ثَلَاثِ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ بِمِثْلِ حَدِيثِ يُونُسَ
Telah menceritakan kepadaku [Abu At Thahir] dan [Harmalah bin Yahya] sedangkan lafazhnya dari Harmalah, [Abu At Thahir] mengatakan; Telah menceritakan kepada kami, sedangkan [Harmalah] mengatakan; Telah mengabarkan kepada kami [Ibnu Wahb] telah mengabarkan kepadaku [Yunus] dari [Ibnu Syihab] telah menceritakan kepadaku [Urwah bin Az Zubair] bahwa ['Aisyah] istri Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam telah mengabarkan kepadanya bahwa Rifa'ah Al Qurazhi telah menceraikan istrinya dengan tala tiga, setelah itu dia (istrinya) menikah dengan Abdurrahman bin Az Zabir, kemudian 'Aisyah datang kepada Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam seraya berkata; "Wahai Rasulullah, sesunguhnya ia pernah menjadi istri Rifa'ah, kemudian ia menceraikannya dengan talak tiga." Setelah itu, saya (istrinya Rifa'ah) menikah dengan Abdurrahman bin Az Zabir, demi Allah, sesungguhnya anunya seperti ujung kain (maksudnya impotent), -dia memperagakan dengan memegang ujung jilbabnya- mendengar hal itu, Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam tersenyum sambil bersabda: "Sepertinya kamu ingin kembali kepada Rifa'ah, itu tidak mungkin, sampai Abdurrahman merasakan madumu dan kamu merasakan madunya (bersenggama)." Waktu itu, Abu Bakar sedang duduk di samping Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam, dan Khalid bin Sa'id bin Al 'Ash duduk di samping pintu, dia tidak di izinkan masuk. Perawi berkata; Maka Khalid menyeru Abu Bakar, kenapa kamu melarangku, padahal wanita itu berkata dengan keras di samping Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam? Telah menceritakan kepada kami [Abd bin Humaid] telah mengabarkan kepada kami [Abdur Razzaq] telah mengabarkan kepada kami [Ma'mar] dari [Az Zuhri] dari ['Urwah] dari ['Aisyah] bahwasannya Rifa'ah Al Qurazhi telah menceraikan istrinya, lantas ia dinikahi oleh Abdurrahman bin Az Zabir, lalu dia datang kepada Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam, dan berkata; Wahai Rasulullah, sesungguhnya Rifa'ah telah menceraikannya dengan talak tiga, seperti hadits Yunus. (HR. Muslim: 2588)
A'isha (Allah be pleased with her), the wife of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him), reported that Rifa'a al-Quraid (Allah be pleased with him) divorced his wife, making her divorce irrevocable. Afterwards she married Abd at-Rahman b. al-Zubair (Allah be pleased with him), She came to Allah'sApostle (may peace be upon him and said to Allah's messenger (may peace be upon him) that she had been the wife of Rifa'a (Allah be pleased with him) and he had divorced her by three pronouncements and afterwards she married 'Abd al-Rahman b. al-Zubair. By Allah, all he possesses is like the fringe of a garment, and she took hold of the fringe of her garment. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) laughed and said: Perhaps you wish to return to Rifa'a, (but you) cannot (do it) until he has tasted your sweetness and you have tasted his sweetness. Abu Bakr al-siddiq (Allah be pleased with him) was sitting at that time with Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and Khalid b. Sa'id b. al-'As (Allah be pleased with him) was sitting at the door of his apartment and he was not permitted to (enter the room), and Kbalid called loudly saying: Abu Bakr, why don't you scold her for what she is saying loudly in the presence of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him)? A'isha (Allah bjpl'eased with her) reported that Rifa'a al Qurazi divorced his wife and afterwards Abd al-Rahman b. al-Zubair married her. She came to Allah's Apostle (may peace he upon him) and said: Messenger of Allah, Rifa'a has divorced me by three pronouncements. (The rest of the hadith is the same.) (Muslim: 2588)